blogs are for people to voice opinions so i'm just gonna be honest.

if anyone sees this and thinks i didnt get my facts right, then tag it. or tell me personally to clear the air. dont hold it back. dont add vinegar to it and gossip about me. i think thats not very fair. and i hope we all have brains to do so and not spoil friendships.

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secrets are harmful. so i'm letting it all run out of me...



the most interesting thing happened in school today and i just have to mention a few names.

well, my clique loves to eat in class. and most of the time i just mention to them how its against school rules. but i wont really like get into a heated argument over that cos i have more important things to do.

still, i feel that its not what a role model should do, after all, we collected colours award and everything..they shouldnt be doing these kinda things.

anyway, today, rj mich, aud and beef were eating again. i was quite angry cos beef is the class monitor, and rj and mich are co-class commitee members with me and jo. we should be setting an example, if not how to write that you're a good role model for your peers in your testimonial?

well, i just told them (twice though) that they should not be eating. after aud and mich said they wouldnt drop anything, i just left it there. afterall, they are good friends of mine and i kinda dont want to fault them.

after a while, the classroom went quiet. mich and aud were at the front of the classroom. they dropped 'nerds' and were looking for it.

i was kinda pissed. like who wouldnt? you mess up, you clean. but i relaxed and continued my work.

then, they went out of the class to the toilet. aud asked if i wanted to go. i dont know if it meant anything, but it was the first time she asked me if i wanted to go to the washroom.

when i turned back to my work, i saw yanying standing beside jialing. and jialing was crying. so i went up to her and found out she was actually stressed that my friends were eating and she couldnt do anything. she didnt want to report it to miss gan as miss gan would punish the whole class and then the class would know the prefects told on them. and jialing said that even if miss gan reprimanded the class, they wont not stop. afterall, the school had once and again enforced this rule already but theystill ate in class. jialing said miss gan would not single them out to reprimand them but that was the only way to maybe try and stop them from eating. she really felt disappointed and sad.

when they came back from class, they saw jialing crying and started sweeping with the broom. i told them that their actions made jialing vexed.

mich then went to apologise to jialing. but i think someone behind me i cant remember who told mich that she wasnt sincere, laughing and joking whilst apologising. then after a minute, mich was vexed and i think she teared.

then chinese started and mich went to miss gan's office to admit her mistakes.

at the beginning, i was kinda pissed at them for being so irresponsible and not taking this seriously. like when mich apologised, in my heart i kinda agreed with the person behind who commented mich wasnt sincere. thats from what i saw.

but then i'm really proud of mich for standing up and going to miss gan to confess. although she was a bit like er.. " ok la, so i go and tell miss gan that i ate, but i swept the floor and i go to church every sunday..." i thought maybe she was a bit bitter. still, it takes courage to confess and i think mich did well. i'm proud of her.

aud was kinda confused and maybe worried when mich went to miss gan.

when aud and i came into b1 class, i saw how much she changed under the influence of mich, rj and jo. of course all these while i was quite sad that i lost a good friend, but still, she was in my clique. i didnt say much.

sometimes i wonder if i'm being too obedient. and sometimes i wonder if there's such a thing
as being too obedient.

i know that my 'overly obedience' has caused me to drift away from my clique. but i just cant do anything about it. i dont know how. and i dont want not to be a good role model for my peers. i want them to look up to me and see that i have been a good example for them.

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see how minor mistakes end up so big? these kind of things never happened in a1 class. we were so free of friendship problem andemotional stuff. when i moved down to b1, i got a 'culture' shock. thats how bad it was. and i didnt get a culture shock when i went to thailand.

i miss my 2 years in a1 class. bring me back.. oh. let my attitude towards studies stay like that then bring bring me back to a1. when i say that, you know i didnt really study in a1.


thats all i have to say today. what do you say? tell me. get the right ideas, dont misunderstand.